Believing a Griever: A Poem
Losing someone they love is heartbreaking and often feels like an endless struggle. Just because they may seem okay doesn’t mean they are. Grief doesn’t follow a timeline, and it’s important to understand that they will never be the same person they were before their loss. Please believe them and be there for them.
Big Reveal #2: A Second Edition!
I’m excited to announce the second edition of The Hospice Doctor’s Widow! It features a new subtitle, added journal entries on grief, and a beautiful forward by Elizabeth Coplan. You can buy it from local bookstores or online. If you love the first edition, please consider leaving a review!
Don't Overspend on Funeral Arrangements
As spring arrives, I reflect on my father's passing and the challenges of arranging his cremation. After discovering significant price variations, I learned the importance of pre-planning and using resources like Funeralocity. Proper planning can ease the burden during difficult times and save money.
For The Love of Text Messaging
One thing that frustrates me in caregiving is when people suggest, “There’s got to be a better way.” Instead of judging, let's offer support. I recently found SupportNow.org, which combines resources to help caregivers, grievers, and friends in need. It's truly a game-changer!
5 Things I Would Never Do: The Griever’s Edition
I never thought I'd be a micro-influencer on death, but here I am. My recent Twitter post caught people’s attention, sparking conversations about grief that we often avoid. It’s crucial to support friends through loss, offering understanding, presence, and patience, even when it’s uncomfortable.
My book won a special award!
During my darkest moments, I turned to art journaling, not just to heal myself but to support others as well. I’m thrilled to share that my book, The Hospice Doctor’s Widow: A Journal, has been recognized with a Silver Nautilus Award for its impact. My gratitude for this journey is beyond words.