End-of-Life Planning: Lessons from the Mama Surfers
I've been reflecting on the Mama Surfers and their inspiring journey through end-of-life preparation. Over ten sessions, these women learned to tackle serious topics together, using tools like the At Peace Tool Kit. They found strength in community and are now more comfortable discussing end-of-life plans with their families.
Meet the Mama Surfers: A Story of Support
Last year, Karen celebrated her 55th birthday and sent her youngest child off to college. Determined not to let time slip away, she created a list called "65 B4 65." Before diving into her adventures, she realized she needed to tackle end-of-life preparation with friends. Together, they became the Mama Surfers to support each other.
Make a Will, Make a Difference
August is National Make-a-Will month, a perfect reminder to create or update your will. Despite knowing how important it is, many fail to discuss their end-of-life wishes. I’ll share a powerful story from 15 women who took action. Let’s make sure our loved ones are cared for when the time comes.
From LA to NYC: Advocate Adventures
I’ve been busy traveling, speaking, and learning about end-of-life preparation and caregiver support. I recently launched a free download called A Griever’s Guide to the Major Days, which has gained a lot of interest. If you find it helpful, please share it with others who may need support.
How I transitioned from long-distance caregiver to griever...
Six weeks ago, I transitioned from being a long-distance caregiver to my father to becoming a griever after his passing. I faced unique challenges, from dealing with estrangement to navigating the chaos of his unpreparedness for death. Reflecting on this journey, I understand the importance of planning and communication in caregiving.
Someone is “Expecting”…
About 33 years ago, I started teaching doctors about practice management and developed the first Procedure and Diagnosis Coding course for the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. Fast forward to my recent reflections on life’s beginnings and endings. I wrote a poem, “Expecting,” published in Intima: Journal of Narrative Medicine.