Grief Deserves Validation Without Comparison
In my journey through loss, I've learned about “internal comparative suffering.” It’s a way I cope, comparing past grief to present challenges. This method helps me find perspective, but I’ve realized that it’s crucial not to impose my comparisons on others. Everyone’s pain is personal and unique.
From LA to NYC: Advocate Adventures
I’ve been busy traveling, speaking, and learning about end-of-life preparation and caregiver support. I recently launched a free download called A Griever’s Guide to the Major Days, which has gained a lot of interest. If you find it helpful, please share it with others who may need support.
Finding Peace in a Small Town Cemetery
This summer in Santa Fe has been a beautiful escape for me after losing my family. I reconnected with friends, took some watercolor classes, and finally visited my brother's grave after many years. It was a touching moment that reminded me of the love and memories we share.
Which costume do you like better?
Autumn brings a whirlwind of emotions for me. With my birthday, my brother David’s accident anniversary, and Bob's birthday all around this time, it's an emotional challenge. This year, a flooded laundry room could have sent me spiraling, but thanks to my proactive downsizing, I managed it with ease.